Wellbeing and personal development

Trusted adults and support cards

Help a child identify adults they can talk to at home, school or elsewhere, then prepare simple reminder cards with a familiar grown-up. The display idea asks staff to make local support routes visible. A safeguarding lead should review it first.

Choose trusted adults with a grown-up. Add locally checked names in the complete worksheet.

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NAME
CLASS
LEARNING GOAL
I can name grown-ups I trust and ask
them for help.
SUCCESS CRITERIA
I can name trusted adults at school and at home.
I can say what I would do if I felt worried.
1
My trusted adults hand
Draw one trusted adult for each finger and write their name.
me
1
2
3
4
5
Or draw around your own hand.
1
Thumb
At home
NAME
2
Pointer finger
At home
NAME
3
Middle finger
At school
NAME
4
Ring finger
At school
NAME
5
Little finger
Someone else
NAME
2
My pocket cards
Fill in your cards with a grown-up. Cut along the dashed lines and keep them in your bag or tray.
Trusted adults and support visual cards · Fill in with a grown-up
PSHE AND WELLBEING
AGES 5 TO 11
FEELING SAFE
My trusted adults
A trusted adult is a grown-up who is kind, listens to you and helps you feel safe.
If I feel worried
I can...
1
tell a trusted
adult
2
keep telling until
someone listens
3
draw it, write it
or show it
A trusted adult will
listen and help me
stay safe.
At school
I can talk to
Outside
school
Helpline in
our country:
A grown-up
at home:
Feelings
words
happy
calm
safe
excited
worried
sad
scared
cross
lonely
confused
I feel
Safeguarding lead
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Feeling worried? Tell a trusted adult. Keep telling until
someone listens.
At school you can talk to
Our safeguarding lead
Name
Find me
Trusted adult
Name
Find me
Trusted adult
Name
Find me
Trusted adult
Name
Find me
Trusted adult
Name
Find me
Trusted adult
Name
Find me
A trusted adult will listen, and if
they need to, they will get help
to keep you safe.
Outside school
Helpline in our country:
A grown-up at home can help you too.
Trusted adults and support visual cards · Classroom display
CLASSROOM DISPLAY
AGES 5 TO 11
FEELING SAFE
Our trusted adults
You can talk to us about anything, big or small.
PHOTO
PHOTO
PHOTO
PHOTO
PHOTO
PHOTO
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A teaching sequence

Support a child to name trusted adults and understand a clear, setting-specific route for seeking help when something worries them.

Choose trusted adults with a grown-up. Add locally checked names in the complete worksheet.

Read the complete material

Discuss chosen trusted adults with permission

Talk together about adults the child knows in home, school or other settings; do not insist on a particular answer. Write a trusted adult’s name or another agreed identifier on a card, with the child’s permission and adult support.

Which adult or agreed identifier would the child like on a private card?

Verify local support details before sharing

Add verified local support details to the blank contact area before giving the card to a child.

Has an authorised adult checked the actual contact route and availability?

Review any display's privacy and safeguarding

If considering a display, obtain the setting’s safeguarding and privacy approval and avoid publishing children’s personal information.

Does the setting's approved display avoid children's personal information?

Revisit changing adults and routes

Revisit the cards when trusted adults or contact routes change, and follow established procedures if a child shares a concern.

Which detail needs updating, and which concern needs the established school response?

Before you teach

Look for the thinking behind an answer, choose the support your class needs and leave room for an independent response.

What to look for

Ask the child, in an age-appropriate way, whether they can identify an adult they could approach and how to find that adult. An adult must check that local contacts are current, accessible and actually available; the card alone is not proof of a safe support route.

Give a little support

Use pictures, symbols or a communication aid, and let the child point, draw or speak rather than write. Offer more than one safe adult option and allow time for the child to respond without pressure.

Take the idea further

Invite staff to map the approved support routes for different settings and check how a child can access them privately, including when a first contact is unavailable. Review the route with the safeguarding lead and update it when contacts change.

Things to keep in mind

The blank contact field is not a live support service. Verify local contacts and safeguarding wording before use; do not promise confidentiality or a guaranteed response. A display may expose sensitive information and requires explicit setting-level privacy approval.

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Ideas for using this resource

Sample teaching perspectives on what to try, what to adapt and what to watch for.

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Kind Check-In

This two-page support set asks a child to draw or name trusted adults across home, school and another setting, then complete pocket cards with an adult. The learning goal includes saying what to do when worried.

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Tea Break Notes

The hand outline helps a child identify more than one possible helper, while the pocket cards can make a help-seeking route easier to remember. The adult participates in completing the cards.

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Helpful Highlighter

Fill in current names and routes together, check that the adults are available and accessible to the child, and practise how to ask for help. Let the child revise the list when circumstances change.

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Steady Marker

The card is not a promise that a named adult will always be available or keep information secret. Keep contacts current and follow the school's safeguarding process for any concern.

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